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Question about Being Gay
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Dear Aurora, my mother has found out that I am gay and have a boyfriend, and a lot of problems came up in our relationship. What is your advice for my situation?
The best thing that you can do is to be yourself. The experience that you have gone through with your mother is releasing energy from within both of you. For you it is helping you to face any fears that you had about being authentic to yourself and being comfortable with sharing this part of yourself with others, no matter what their opinions or judgments may be. This process will make you so much stronger in the long run, although it is emotionally difficult at the present moment. There is an energy deep inside of you that bases your worthiness on the opinions of others, instead of just knowing that you are a beautiful and wonderful soul. You do not need any person or thing outside of you to base your worthiness on, and that is one thing that your boyfriend is here to help you with in this life.
Part of the reason that you mother is having difficulty with this information at the moment, is that she too bases her worth on outside circumstances, opinions and influences. This is where you have learned some of this behavior from. Once she works through her own emotions, she will realize that her Love for you has never changed, and eventually that Love will always win out. She will first have to realize that this Love is more important than these outside influences, because Love is the source of true worthiness. She is just a mirror for you, and as long you focus on being happy within yourself, she will also be able to change her energy. But, if you play into the emotions and need to please her, then this emotional cycle will continue for longer.
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